Below are the 10 differences between successful people and unsuccessful people.

下面為大家介紹成功者與平庸者之間的10大區(qū)別：

1. Embrace change vs. Fear change

1. 接受改變 vs. 懼怕改變

Embracing change is one of the hardest things a person can do. With the world moving so fast and constantly changing, and technologyaccelerating faster than ever, we need to embrace what’s coming and adapt, rather than fear it, deny it or hide from it。

一個人最難做的事情之一就是接受改變。這個世界進步太快，隨時隨地都在發(fā)生著改變，而科技也是日新月異。我們應該接受即將到來的改變，并適應這樣的改變，而不是害怕、否認、逃避。

2. Want others to succeed vs. Secretly hope others fail

2. 希望他人成功 vs. 暗地里希望他人失敗

When you’re in an organization with a group of people, in order to be successful, you all have to be successful. We need to want to see our co-workers succeed and grow. If you wish for their demise, why even work with them at all?

和一群人在一家公司工作的時候，你要想成功，那么所有人都必須成功。我們應該希望看到自己同事的成功和進步。如果你希望他們失敗，那還為什么要和他們一起工作呢?

3. Accept responsibly for your failures vs. Blame others for your failures

3.勇于承擔失敗的責任 vs. 因失敗抱怨他人

Where there are ups, there are most always downs. Being a leader and successful businessperson means always having to accept responsibility for your failures. Blaming others solves nothing; it just puts other people down and absolutely no good comes from it。

人生總是充滿起起落落。作為一個領導者和一名成功的商業(yè)人士要勇于承擔失敗的責任。埋怨他人于事無補，只會讓別人感到難堪，抱怨絕不會有任何好處。

4. Talk about ideas vs. Talk about people

4. 談論想法 vs. 談論他人

What did we all learn in high school? Gossip gets you nowhere. Instead of gossiping about people, successful people talk about ideas. Sharing ideas with others will only make them better。

我們在高中都學會了什么?八卦不會給你帶來任何好處。成功人士在一起會談論自己的想法而不是八卦他人。彼此交換想法只會讓他們變的更好。

5. Set goals and life plans vs. Do not set goals

5. 確立目標和人生計劃 vs. 沒有目標

You can’t possibly be successful without knowing where you’re going in life. A life vision board, 10 year plan, 3 year forecast, annual strategic plan, and daily goal lists are useful tools of the mega-successful people. Get your vision and goals down on paper!

生活中，如果你不知道自己要往哪里前進，那么你也不會成功。人生規(guī)劃，10年規(guī)劃，3年預期，每年的策略性計劃以及每天的目標列表對于成功人士都是很有用的工具。將自己的規(guī)劃和目標寫在紙上。

6. Keep a journal vs. Say you keep a journal but don’t

6. 寫日記 vs. 說自己要寫日記但從來沒寫過

Keeping a journal is a great way to jot down quick ideas or thoughts. Writing them down can lead to something even greater. You can even use mobile apps or your Notes function in your phone. But don’t fool yourself by saying you keep a journal and not following through。

寫日記是一個很好的方法來快速地記下自己的想法。記下這些想法會創(chuàng)造出更偉大的東西。你甚至可以使用手機的應用程序或者手機里的便簽功能來寫日記。但是不要欺騙自己，說要寫日記但從來沒有執(zhí)行過。

7. Read every day vs. Watch TV every day

7. 每天讀書 vs. 每天看電視

Reading every day educates you on new subjects. Whether you are reading a blog, your favorite magazine or a good book, you can learn and become more knowledgeable as you read. Watching television, on the other hand, may be good entertainment or an escape, but you’ll rarely get anything out of TV to help you become more successful。

每天的閱讀可以讓你接觸不同的內(nèi)容。不論是讀一篇博客，自己最喜歡的雜志還是一本好書，你都會學到東西，變的更加博學。相反，看電視也許是很好的娛樂方式或者說是一種很好的逃避方式，但是要想成功，電視節(jié)目益處很少。

8. Continuously learn vs. Fly by the seat of your pants

8. 不斷學習 vs. 三分鐘熱度

Continuously learning and improving is the only way to grow. You can be a step above your competition and become more flexible because you know more. If you just fly by the seat of your pants, you could be passing up opportunities that prevent you from learning (and growing!)

不斷的學習和進步是唯一的成長方式。因為知道更多，自己就可以在競爭中掌握先機，也會更加游刃有余。如果做事總是三分鐘熱度，你就會錯失很多機會，妨礙自己的學習和進步。

9. Forgive others vs. Hold a grudge

9. 原諒他人 vs. 不斷抱怨

Everybody makes mistakes; it’s human. The only way to get past the mistake is to forgive and move on. Dwelling on anger only makes things worse - for you。

每個人都會犯錯，這是不可避免的。唯一解決錯誤的方式就是原諒，然后繼續(xù)前進。對自己而言，老是生氣只會讓事情變得更糟。

10. Keep a “To-Be” list vs. Don’t know what you want to be

10. 擁有夢想 vs. 前路迷茫

A “To-Be” list is a great way to strategize for the future. I want to be an elected official one day. I want to be a TED speaker. I want to be the CEO of a public company. I want to be a great father and husband. Unsuccessful people have no idea what they want to be. If you don’t know what you want to be, how can you achieve success? What do you want to be?

一份“夢想”列表是很好的未來規(guī)劃。終有一天，我要成為一名官員。我想要成為一名TED演講者。我想要成為一家上市公司的CEO。我想要成為一個偉大的父親和丈夫。平庸的人不知道他們想要成為什么。如果你都不知道自己想要成為什么，怎么會成功呢?你想要成為什么呢?